Traveling Treats

Life presented us with an opportunity to get away for a bit, and we jumped on it. My wonderful in-laws were able to come stay with the kids so my husband, mom and I decided to take a quick trip to Portugal and Spain! I’ve never left my babies for this long so the anticipation tugged on my heart with a bit of force.

A girlfriend was telling me about using pill cases to “hide” treats in during trips so I thought about using this idea in reverse. In order for them to see a visual of when mama and daddy will be back, they get to open one “day” each day and enjoy a little treat. Keener scored with Easter candy — chocolate eggs and Starburst jelly beans — while Grace got an adorable hedgehog butter cookie from Trader Joe’s. In general, I limit their sugar intake but mom and dad being away felt like an exception!

I’m all about visuals so I thought that by seeing how many days of candy they have left would serve as a concrete picture of when we will return. I also wanted to pair us being away with positive and delicious associations. As the woman next to me on the plane said, her 4 year old son now asks her to stay away longer because his grandparents spoil her son so much.

Since we’ve been gone every child I see genuinely makes my heart feel a bit heavy. But I also know my kids are in the best hands in my absence. The voices in my head between chaos and rigidity are present but I’m doing everything I can to keep myself floating down the center of the river and enjoy this gift of time away.

Next week I will resume sharing about how the brain impacts our parenting. I just started reading Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryon’s other book, The Yes Brain – “How to cultivate courage, curiosity, and resilience in your child.” Looking forward to sharing this as well. For now, a few pictures from our trip!

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7 thoughts on “Traveling Treats

  1. Lindsay

    what a great idea! and it’s so hard being away from the little ones, hang in there and have fun! drinking wine always helped me to worry abt them less when i was on vacation – hahaha.

    1. steinhoffjk

      Yes it would! Or even a long doctor’s appointment filled with small stickers. I might keep one filled and in the car for those unexpected traffic moments as well 🙂

  2. Molly Blankenship

    Such a great idea! I’m definitely going to use this when Mae gets older. Looks like yall are having fun!

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